Say "I do" to Hugh and this trendsetting British romcom
Wednesday, January 28, 2026
Released in 1994 and directed by Mike Newell, Four Weddings and a Funeral stands as a seminal work in British romantic comedy that redefined the genre for a modern audience. The narrative follows the romantic misadventures of a tight-knit group of friends as they navigate the joys and sorrows of five distinct social gatherings. At the heart of the story is the charmingly awkward and perennial bachelor Charles, played by Hugh Grant, whose commitment-phobic life is upended when he meets Carrie, an elusive American beauty portrayed by Andie MacDowell. As the title suggests, their "will-they-or-won't-they" relationship unfolds across four nuptials and one somber funeral, supported by a memorable ensemble cast that includes Kristin Scott Thomas as the pining Fiona, Simon Callow as the boisterous Gareth, and John Hannah as the poignant Matthew.
This picture was surprisingly influential. Made for the equivalent of less than $2 million in American dollars (the budget was so meager that extras were forced to don their own wedding attire), it earned a whopping $245.7 million globally, becoming the highest-grossing British movie in history up to that time. It reinvigorated the British film industry, made Grant an international star, and paved the way for forthcoming British romcom juggernauts.
It also lent greater prestige and respectability to the romcom genre in general by garnering Oscar nominations for Best Picture and Best Original Screenplay. And the film remains highly regarded among British cinema, ranking 23rd on a list of the BFI’s 100 greatest British films of the 20th century, and 21 and Empire magazine’s roster of the 100 best British films.
By veering away from stuffy period pieces and the "working-class gloom" found in bleak social realist films like Riff-Raff (1991), Naked (1993), and The Long Day Closes (1992), Four Weddings redefined British cinema with a sleek, marketable brand of "Englishness." It created a globally bankable formula that successfully exported a polished, aspirational version of British culture to the world stage, and it traded the industrial decay and gritty aesthetics of "kitchen sink" dramas for a contemporary story defined by cruder wit, genuine friendship, and the charming anxieties of the middle and upper classes.
“Much of Four Weddings’ humor is rooted in the illicit thrill of witnessing mild-mannered Brits behaving badly, from Charles’s expletive-laden journey to the first wedding, to the hilariously uninhibited sex scene between the wholesome-looking Bernard and Lydia,” wrote BFI essayist Paul O’Callaghan. “Crucially, Curtis and Newell ensure that their gang of randy poshos is as relatable as possible. None of the key players, bar Carrie, seems particularly interested in money or social status.”
The international success of Four Weddings also helped cement the "Richard Curtis style," named after its screenwriter: a formula defined by bumbling, charismatic leads and eccentric friend groups. This blueprint, balancing high-society glamour with grounded emotional pathos, was perfected in the quirky romance of Notting Hill (1999) and the self-deprecating charm of Bridget Jones’s Diary (2001). Curtis further refined this aesthetic through the massive interconnected ensemble of Love Actually (2003) and the whimsical, heartfelt sincerity of About Time (2013), creating a definitive template for the modern romantic comedy. Curtis was inspired to write Four Weddings based on his own experiences attending 65 weddings over 11 years.
This film appears quite progressive for a 1994 movie and has aged well in 2 key ways: The depiction of Gareth and Matthew’s gay relationship, and the presence of a strong female love interest with agency.
“At the time of Four Weddings’ release, LGBTQ+ screen characters were invariably defined by their otherness,” per O’Callaghan. “The New Queer Cinema of the early 90s espoused a defiant rejection of mainstream heterosexual culture, while at the other end of the spectrum, Jonathan Demme’s Philadelphia attempted to elicit widespread sympathy for the community’s struggles by casting everyman Tom Hanks as a chaste lawyer dying of Aids…Four Weddings, by contrast, depicted a happy, charismatic gay couple seamlessly integrated into a predominantly straight friendship group. More significantly, their relationship is conspicuously the most harmonious and healthy in the film.”
Ponder how, throughout their romance, Carrie maintains the upper hand, navigating their relationship with a level of sexual autonomy that Charles lacks. Her self-assurance is most evident when she candidly reveals having had 33 intimate partners, a figure that dwarfs Charles’s modest 9.
The movie stays consistent with its title, keeping the narrative firmly focused on three weddings, one funeral, and a fourth wedding, in order, and not deviating from this confined structure of events. By doing so, the filmmakers cleverly trace the arcs of these characters over time while also managing to avoid revealing their professions or politics.
Always a bridesmaid, never a bride – or in this case, groom – appears to be the prevailing theme, at least on the surface. Charles describes himself as a “serial monogamist” who – through a combination of bad choices and bad luck – can’t seem to find the right partner. Charles has difficulty properly expressing his feelings and committing to a sustained, serious relationship. Every wedding he attends reminds him of the romantic wreckage he’s responsible for from past relationships, and how he’s seemingly doomed to remain single. It isn’t until he meets Carrie that he feels a truly deep romantic connection and the prospect of forever love. Put another way, good things come to those who wait.
Four Weddings also espouses that there’s somebody for everybody in this world. It’s a picture that suggests, often comically although perhaps unrealistically, that everyone has a soulmate just waiting to be discovered. We observe Charles and each of his friends paired with a spouse or another romantic partner by the end of the story: the ultimate happy ending for a romcom. But first, Charles nearly makes a serious life mistake by acquiescing and agreeing to marry Henrietta. Fortunately, his brother David wakes him out of his stupor at the last minute and encourages him to follow his heart and not settle for second-best.
Four Weddings and a Funeral also promulgates a carpe diem philosophy, reminding us that life goes by quickly and opportunities need to be snatched up when available. Recall how swiftly characters in the film fall in love and get married or divorced, as well as how big life events such as weddings and funerals can spring up unexpectedly, reinforcing the notion of time’s fleeting nature.
Lastly, love certainly matters, but friends loom large in this relationship story. Charles’ group consists of steadfast singles who share his relationship challenges and remain unmarried for much of the film, though they each seek long-term romantic partners. But they provide significant emotional support to each other as bachelors and bachelorettes, blunting the sting of singlehood.
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This picture was surprisingly influential. Made for the equivalent of less than $2 million in American dollars (the budget was so meager that extras were forced to don their own wedding attire), it earned a whopping $245.7 million globally, becoming the highest-grossing British movie in history up to that time. It reinvigorated the British film industry, made Grant an international star, and paved the way for forthcoming British romcom juggernauts.
It also lent greater prestige and respectability to the romcom genre in general by garnering Oscar nominations for Best Picture and Best Original Screenplay. And the film remains highly regarded among British cinema, ranking 23rd on a list of the BFI’s 100 greatest British films of the 20th century, and 21 and Empire magazine’s roster of the 100 best British films.
By veering away from stuffy period pieces and the "working-class gloom" found in bleak social realist films like Riff-Raff (1991), Naked (1993), and The Long Day Closes (1992), Four Weddings redefined British cinema with a sleek, marketable brand of "Englishness." It created a globally bankable formula that successfully exported a polished, aspirational version of British culture to the world stage, and it traded the industrial decay and gritty aesthetics of "kitchen sink" dramas for a contemporary story defined by cruder wit, genuine friendship, and the charming anxieties of the middle and upper classes.
“Much of Four Weddings’ humor is rooted in the illicit thrill of witnessing mild-mannered Brits behaving badly, from Charles’s expletive-laden journey to the first wedding, to the hilariously uninhibited sex scene between the wholesome-looking Bernard and Lydia,” wrote BFI essayist Paul O’Callaghan. “Crucially, Curtis and Newell ensure that their gang of randy poshos is as relatable as possible. None of the key players, bar Carrie, seems particularly interested in money or social status.”
The international success of Four Weddings also helped cement the "Richard Curtis style," named after its screenwriter: a formula defined by bumbling, charismatic leads and eccentric friend groups. This blueprint, balancing high-society glamour with grounded emotional pathos, was perfected in the quirky romance of Notting Hill (1999) and the self-deprecating charm of Bridget Jones’s Diary (2001). Curtis further refined this aesthetic through the massive interconnected ensemble of Love Actually (2003) and the whimsical, heartfelt sincerity of About Time (2013), creating a definitive template for the modern romantic comedy. Curtis was inspired to write Four Weddings based on his own experiences attending 65 weddings over 11 years.
This film appears quite progressive for a 1994 movie and has aged well in 2 key ways: The depiction of Gareth and Matthew’s gay relationship, and the presence of a strong female love interest with agency.
“At the time of Four Weddings’ release, LGBTQ+ screen characters were invariably defined by their otherness,” per O’Callaghan. “The New Queer Cinema of the early 90s espoused a defiant rejection of mainstream heterosexual culture, while at the other end of the spectrum, Jonathan Demme’s Philadelphia attempted to elicit widespread sympathy for the community’s struggles by casting everyman Tom Hanks as a chaste lawyer dying of Aids…Four Weddings, by contrast, depicted a happy, charismatic gay couple seamlessly integrated into a predominantly straight friendship group. More significantly, their relationship is conspicuously the most harmonious and healthy in the film.”
Ponder how, throughout their romance, Carrie maintains the upper hand, navigating their relationship with a level of sexual autonomy that Charles lacks. Her self-assurance is most evident when she candidly reveals having had 33 intimate partners, a figure that dwarfs Charles’s modest 9.
The movie stays consistent with its title, keeping the narrative firmly focused on three weddings, one funeral, and a fourth wedding, in order, and not deviating from this confined structure of events. By doing so, the filmmakers cleverly trace the arcs of these characters over time while also managing to avoid revealing their professions or politics.
Always a bridesmaid, never a bride – or in this case, groom – appears to be the prevailing theme, at least on the surface. Charles describes himself as a “serial monogamist” who – through a combination of bad choices and bad luck – can’t seem to find the right partner. Charles has difficulty properly expressing his feelings and committing to a sustained, serious relationship. Every wedding he attends reminds him of the romantic wreckage he’s responsible for from past relationships, and how he’s seemingly doomed to remain single. It isn’t until he meets Carrie that he feels a truly deep romantic connection and the prospect of forever love. Put another way, good things come to those who wait.
Four Weddings also espouses that there’s somebody for everybody in this world. It’s a picture that suggests, often comically although perhaps unrealistically, that everyone has a soulmate just waiting to be discovered. We observe Charles and each of his friends paired with a spouse or another romantic partner by the end of the story: the ultimate happy ending for a romcom. But first, Charles nearly makes a serious life mistake by acquiescing and agreeing to marry Henrietta. Fortunately, his brother David wakes him out of his stupor at the last minute and encourages him to follow his heart and not settle for second-best.
Four Weddings and a Funeral also promulgates a carpe diem philosophy, reminding us that life goes by quickly and opportunities need to be snatched up when available. Recall how swiftly characters in the film fall in love and get married or divorced, as well as how big life events such as weddings and funerals can spring up unexpectedly, reinforcing the notion of time’s fleeting nature.
Lastly, love certainly matters, but friends loom large in this relationship story. Charles’ group consists of steadfast singles who share his relationship challenges and remain unmarried for much of the film, though they each seek long-term romantic partners. But they provide significant emotional support to each other as bachelors and bachelorettes, blunting the sting of singlehood.
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Love Actually (2003, Richard Curtis)
Wimbledon (2004, Richard Loncraine)
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About Time (2013, Richard Curtis)
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